I am going to breakdown the 3 things that I feel is bothering you: career, relationship, and health.
1. Career. Not everyone (actually 90% of the population don't) gets to find a job that they truly enjoy. What people do, is that they work their asses off, and do things they enjoy on weekends and holidays. I know there are things that make u smile. Maybe taking care of kids, going out, traveling? BBQing? Singing K? Watching a Wong Sze Wah comedy show? Does it may you smile to see others smile? I see that your mood is actually quite good whenever you're about to go out, so I don't think you're a depressing person. Of course, people get depressed when they stay home in a lonely atmosphere with stupid thoughts. I get depressed too if I stay home on Friday and think about the meaning of life. Instead, I stay home and play some poker or watch a movie to keep my mind busy.
2. Relationship. It feels only yesterday when you were crying over Arthur. Who would of thought you would move on? But you did, and that's my point. It's hard for you to imagine what will happen in the future, so there is no need to worry now. I know you're saying "there is no way I can love somebody else right now!". Well, that's what you think. I promise you, you WILL meet another guy whom you will love very much, but u two maybe breakup too. So? It's a never-ending cycle and that is one of the facts of life. We go through 90% sadness just to find 10% happiness. It's short, but worth it.
3. Health. Okay, I can't comment on this. My eyes don't hurt, however my back does hurt alot. I know you're not depressed because of this, your eyes is just an extra reason to be sad. Physical pain is never as bad as mental pain. As long as you can conquer your mind, you too will find happiness in this world.
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