8 Signs He's Not Interested => so true
Not only works on guys, for gals as well.
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
Sunday, March 14, 2010
領悟
I feel so inspired after seeing HIM.
Studdenly feel after all these years, everything is worth and I finally understand.
He is getting marry. I am shock and unhappy, not because I still like him, it just he is a person that I used to love so much. Because of him, I did a lot of stuff things and hurt a person that I never should.
He finally told me the reason why he choosed her and letting me know what he really feels.
I finally know that what I thought about him was wrong, I guess he cares, if not he won't ask me out. He worry I would get hard feeling from he is getting marry. Never know he is so considerate, especially toward me.
Thanks for letting me know the REAL you, telling the story of you and her and being so considerate.
"like doesn't mean anything
sometimes really depends on many things ( timing, faith, backgrounds.....etc)
and I never reallly know what another person feel or my position in another person's heart"
Studdenly feel after all these years, everything is worth and I finally understand.
He is getting marry. I am shock and unhappy, not because I still like him, it just he is a person that I used to love so much. Because of him, I did a lot of stuff things and hurt a person that I never should.
He finally told me the reason why he choosed her and letting me know what he really feels.
I finally know that what I thought about him was wrong, I guess he cares, if not he won't ask me out. He worry I would get hard feeling from he is getting marry. Never know he is so considerate, especially toward me.
Thanks for letting me know the REAL you, telling the story of you and her and being so considerate.
"like doesn't mean anything
sometimes really depends on many things ( timing, faith, backgrounds.....etc)
and I never reallly know what another person feel or my position in another person's heart"
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Monday, March 8, 2010
「麥兜」才女
去年暑期《麥兜响噹噹》上畫，邵夷貝不僅為國語版創作演唱主題曲，又給Miss Chan配音。她形容「覺得自己就是麥兜」，尤其喜歡麥兜背後那種「快樂中透著憂傷」、「殘酷又溫暖」的真實：「我和麥兜一樣，喜歡順其自然，不是要爭大悲大喜的人；我想我是悲觀的樂觀主義者，就是雖然很多事情很無奈悲傷，也要單純地相信著、前進著，即使生活中有絕望，也一定會樂觀。」身為「80後」的她說﹕「我們這一代人，初入社會時會有迷茫和無奈，但我們在漸漸長大，具備獨立思考的品質，也為這個時代注入了新鮮血液。」
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
瑚說百道：管不了
瑚說百道：管不了好朋友看見我呆坐在房間中，擔心的說：「他是很好，只不過在他仍不知道應該選擇你之前，請不要太在意他。」
好朋友是關心我的，但我奇怪她竟誤會了我的心意。不錯，那一刻的確是呆住了，不過我只是在想，喝了酒後應不應吃中藥，而不是在想任何關於任何男人的事。
誰對我好，誰對我不好，我當然知道，人非草木嘛！再者，我自問是個對感情需求很大，而且很敏感的人，哪個對我的愛意多，哪個對我的愛意少，我當然知道，要不然，在剛剛過去的大年初一，亦即是情人節，我便不用跟一班老朋友出外旅遊。
如果是喜歡的話，明知我要出埠了，也可以在早一天送上表達心意的禮物。只是，即使是一朵玫瑰或是一盒朱古力，我都沒有收到，可想而知，在朋友眼中懷疑是喜歡我的人的心有多麼在意我。
已說過很多次，我在感情中是很現實的，在得不到應有的回報的情況下，即使心扉已開，也會把它關上。我就是這種人，所以朋友根本不用為我擔心。
至於對任何男人的想法？畢竟到了這個年紀的對象，都不是初出茅廬的小子了，要是連在甚麼節日應有甚麼表示也不懂的人，我想也太索然無味了，而我亦不打算開班授課，不管他對情人節的了解是多麼的少，還是他不喜歡在節日做任何事，我也管不了。
糊塗人
梁佩瑚
好朋友是關心我的，但我奇怪她竟誤會了我的心意。不錯，那一刻的確是呆住了，不過我只是在想，喝了酒後應不應吃中藥，而不是在想任何關於任何男人的事。
誰對我好，誰對我不好，我當然知道，人非草木嘛！再者，我自問是個對感情需求很大，而且很敏感的人，哪個對我的愛意多，哪個對我的愛意少，我當然知道，要不然，在剛剛過去的大年初一，亦即是情人節，我便不用跟一班老朋友出外旅遊。
如果是喜歡的話，明知我要出埠了，也可以在早一天送上表達心意的禮物。只是，即使是一朵玫瑰或是一盒朱古力，我都沒有收到，可想而知，在朋友眼中懷疑是喜歡我的人的心有多麼在意我。
已說過很多次，我在感情中是很現實的，在得不到應有的回報的情況下，即使心扉已開，也會把它關上。我就是這種人，所以朋友根本不用為我擔心。
至於對任何男人的想法？畢竟到了這個年紀的對象，都不是初出茅廬的小子了，要是連在甚麼節日應有甚麼表示也不懂的人，我想也太索然無味了，而我亦不打算開班授課，不管他對情人節的了解是多麼的少，還是他不喜歡在節日做任何事，我也管不了。
糊塗人
梁佩瑚
I have to remeber who I am
I have to remeber who I am, even if you dont' remeber me.
Even if it's just a minutes, you're still important - don't ever forget that.
Caring for you means the world to me; it's what I have to do.
sometimes I have to take a minutes to remeber myself, and how much I love you.
-Christy
Even if it's just a minutes, you're still important - don't ever forget that.
Caring for you means the world to me; it's what I have to do.
sometimes I have to take a minutes to remeber myself, and how much I love you.
-Christy
Monday, March 1, 2010
8 Signs He's Not Interested
8 Signs He's Not Interested
Know when to forget about him and move on ...
By Myreille Simard
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We all know the old adage, “love is blind”. But before falling head over heels in love, take a closer look at the object of your affection. Is the feeling—as strong as it is—completely mutual? Save yourself a lot of unnecessary pain and check out our list of warning signs that he’s just not that keen on you.
1. He never calls you first.
Sure he calls, but it’s always to return your call. Running after someone can become an obsession—a disappointing one. Is he playing hard to get or just not that into you? Here’s how to find out: don’t call him for a few days. If he calls you, great. If he doesn’t, move on.
2. He won’t plan ahead.
You invite him to a hot party next month, and he hesitates before giving you his answer. Maybe he’s waiting to see if something better comes up—a sign he’s not ecstatic about going. If his final answer is “yes”, then rejoice: all may not be lost. But if it’s “no”, and it’s his second refusal, cut back on the invitations and rethink the relationship.
3. He won’t come up for a nightcap.
You’re both coming back from a party, he’s driving you home, and you ask him if he’d like to come up for a drink. A classic move, with a classic response: “yes”. But if he surprises you by refusing your invitation because he has to get up early to take his cat out for a walk, start asking yourself some questions. If it happens more than once, it should be clear that you’re just not clicking.
4. He’s vague about getting together again.
At the end of your date, he suggests keeping in touch—and nothing more specific. It may not be the end of the world, but if he really wants to see you again, he’ll make the time. Maybe you’ve just started dating and he fears putting too much pressure on you; or it could be he’s not so sure he wants to see you again next week. You’ll have the answer soon enough if he doesn’t call in the days to come, or if he turns you down the next time you call to ask him out.
5. He doesn’t ask you questions.
How can someone be interested in you if they don’t want to know what your interests are—or even how you are, or how your day went? If he rarely ever asks you about your day or what you did last night, it’s probably because he just doesn’t care. It’s hurtful when the person you’re attracted to doesn’t show much interest in your life, but better to realize it as soon as possible and move on.
6. He doesn’t call when he says he will.
He says he’ll call at seven, but your phone only rings at nine—or even worse, the next day. When you do talk, he gives you lame excuses for calling so late. You may be telling yourself he’s probably too busy to call when he said he would, but why make excuses for him? If he’s interested in you, he’d be thinking of you, which usually leads to calling when he said he would. But try to keep an open mind, too; sometimes there’s a legitimate reason for not calling. Trust your instinct!
7. He hasn’t introduced you to his family.
It’s true that presenting someone you’ve started seeing to your family is a big step. It’s also true that some people need more time before they’re ready to bring you home for dinner—if ever. But if he’s already met your folks and you haven’t met his, he may not be ready to make your relationship official. If you feel he should introduce you to the other people in his life, then sit down and discuss your feelings with him.
8. His friends don’t know you exist.
Introducing you to his family is a big leap forward, and it usually comes after a long period of getting to know each other. However, there’s no reason why he shouldn’t introduce you to his buddies—nowhere near as formal and stressful as presenting you to his parents. If it’s going well, then he’s probably told them about you, or even included you in plans with them. If he’s trying to hide your relationship, ask him why. His response should make it clear what’s going on—or not.
Know when to forget about him and move on ...
By Myreille Simard
Email This Article IM This Article Print This Article
• 1 | 2 • Next
We all know the old adage, “love is blind”. But before falling head over heels in love, take a closer look at the object of your affection. Is the feeling—as strong as it is—completely mutual? Save yourself a lot of unnecessary pain and check out our list of warning signs that he’s just not that keen on you.
1. He never calls you first.
Sure he calls, but it’s always to return your call. Running after someone can become an obsession—a disappointing one. Is he playing hard to get or just not that into you? Here’s how to find out: don’t call him for a few days. If he calls you, great. If he doesn’t, move on.
2. He won’t plan ahead.
You invite him to a hot party next month, and he hesitates before giving you his answer. Maybe he’s waiting to see if something better comes up—a sign he’s not ecstatic about going. If his final answer is “yes”, then rejoice: all may not be lost. But if it’s “no”, and it’s his second refusal, cut back on the invitations and rethink the relationship.
3. He won’t come up for a nightcap.
You’re both coming back from a party, he’s driving you home, and you ask him if he’d like to come up for a drink. A classic move, with a classic response: “yes”. But if he surprises you by refusing your invitation because he has to get up early to take his cat out for a walk, start asking yourself some questions. If it happens more than once, it should be clear that you’re just not clicking.
4. He’s vague about getting together again.
At the end of your date, he suggests keeping in touch—and nothing more specific. It may not be the end of the world, but if he really wants to see you again, he’ll make the time. Maybe you’ve just started dating and he fears putting too much pressure on you; or it could be he’s not so sure he wants to see you again next week. You’ll have the answer soon enough if he doesn’t call in the days to come, or if he turns you down the next time you call to ask him out.
5. He doesn’t ask you questions.
How can someone be interested in you if they don’t want to know what your interests are—or even how you are, or how your day went? If he rarely ever asks you about your day or what you did last night, it’s probably because he just doesn’t care. It’s hurtful when the person you’re attracted to doesn’t show much interest in your life, but better to realize it as soon as possible and move on.
6. He doesn’t call when he says he will.
He says he’ll call at seven, but your phone only rings at nine—or even worse, the next day. When you do talk, he gives you lame excuses for calling so late. You may be telling yourself he’s probably too busy to call when he said he would, but why make excuses for him? If he’s interested in you, he’d be thinking of you, which usually leads to calling when he said he would. But try to keep an open mind, too; sometimes there’s a legitimate reason for not calling. Trust your instinct!
7. He hasn’t introduced you to his family.
It’s true that presenting someone you’ve started seeing to your family is a big step. It’s also true that some people need more time before they’re ready to bring you home for dinner—if ever. But if he’s already met your folks and you haven’t met his, he may not be ready to make your relationship official. If you feel he should introduce you to the other people in his life, then sit down and discuss your feelings with him.
8. His friends don’t know you exist.
Introducing you to his family is a big leap forward, and it usually comes after a long period of getting to know each other. However, there’s no reason why he shouldn’t introduce you to his buddies—nowhere near as formal and stressful as presenting you to his parents. If it’s going well, then he’s probably told them about you, or even included you in plans with them. If he’s trying to hide your relationship, ask him why. His response should make it clear what’s going on—or not.
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Good times won't last forever ~~ but it's a good memorbale moment
A sweet dream won't last forever, somehow I just need to wake up from it.
I just feel stupid and silly that why this is happening to me again?
How sad it was to saw that last nite????
I can't even ask or say anything, I don't even have a position.
A sweet dream won't last forever, somehow I just need to wake up from it.
I just feel stupid and silly that why this is happening to me again?
How sad it was to saw that last nite????
I can't even ask or say anything, I don't even have a position.
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